Reflection – Choose your crowd

September 14, 2009

No matter what, some people will pull you down,
The kind who insist on talking about the violent storms on a bright sunny day
Stay clear of these people
With a few words they set you back in your morale and self belief
Who begin to criticise even before they know what they are talking about.
Whose first sentence always begins with “No”, “But”,” Couldn’t”
Always focussing on the negative before anything and everything else.

Thank goodness others will energise you, keep you going!
You will get the affirmation you need just when the self doubt is starting to creep.
No that you must be surrounded by yes man
But those who criticise constructively, give hope, offer alternatives
do it without making you feel bad.

Choose who you mingle with,
Stay clear of people who send the wrong vibes,
The poison that will cloud anything.
People who see the worst in everything,
Who can bring nothing to anything.
Those who will reduce something to nothing.
Those who always  insist that you could have done better,
Those who increase your doubt in your ability
Better to play without any audience than before a rude and unappreciative one.

Choose your crowd.
Not everyone who can hear will listen
Not everyone wants to listen
Not everyone will care to appreciate.

But the crowd aside,
Be your own person without the crowd
Do not live to please the crowd otherwise your life will be crowded with trouble.
Be whole and complete without the affirmation of a crowd
Remain confident in spite of the crowd.
Choose your crowd.

BTM


Hope in contrast

September 9, 2009

The pressure is mounting,
but so is your resilience,
You want to frown
but there’s reason to smile,
Things are getting tough
but you getting tougher,
You gonna give up a little,
but gain a whole lot more.

You are making mistakes
but also getting the experience.
You are taking risks
but reaping the gains..
You made to be the fool,
but you are really the wiser.

Some think they are hurting you,
but they only makin you stronger
Some will pull you down,
but you just keep popping up.

Yesterday is gone
but today is here
Today is going
but tomorrow awaits us,
The time is passing
but there is yet more time before us.

You feeling hopeless
but there’s much more to be hopeful about,
You are stumbling and falling
but only to rise again and keep going!
You want to stop
but you’ll keep going!
You want to give up
but you are going to make it.

BTM


Steps yesterday, more today!

September 8, 2009

Yesterday you took some steps towards your goals. Take more today! BTM


Random thought – Late Starter (Part 1)

September 5, 2009

Don’t worry if you are late starter.
Who is taking stock of the times anyway?
Is this the Olympics or something?
Chances are you will go further that you expect
as you seek to make up for “lost” time.
Long after others have burnt out you will still be going
strong with great enthusiasm.
That solid foundation you set up while being late is now coming handy!
So go ahead and be late!
BTM